Before I start, you should know that my Dad wasn’t cheap — quite the opposite, actually — especially if you were his youngest child and only girl.
But this isn’t a precious story about a spoiled little girl, I promise. Instead, it’s a story of a man who never used enough charcoal. For someone who loved food & wine as much as my Dad, his miserly approach to the barbecue always puzzled me and was a marriage-long source of summertime frustration for my mother.
She would have all of the sides & condiments out on the table, the buns warmed and all three kids sitting at the table, only to wait while my Dad brought one hot dog/burger in through the patio door at a time. Few of us actually ate at the same time, and it must have taken at least 30 minutes before everyone had sat down to begin eating. And there was no changing him.
For the most part, those experiences led me to some pretty rampant over use of charcoal as an adult. But every now and then, I catch myself with a piece of meat bigger than my pile of coals. And right at that moment, when I realize that it’s going to be a long time until dinner, I often hear the whisper of a laugh over my shoulder and feel him behind me, nodding his head in approval.
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